Ramblings… I’m Ready to Do It.

Today’s the day.  I decided today that I’m really going to do it.  I’m really going to make it happen.  I’m not going to put it off another day.  It’s going to work.  I’m scared to even hope it will.  Oh, Lord, I need your help!

You probably guessed it.  I’m going to start exercising and watching what I eat.  In three years, my husband and I will have been married for twenty-five years.  That’s a long time.  The weight has crept up on both of us for years.  He’s going to work on this with me.  When you get to this age, I know it’s harder.  I also know it’s more important.  So, even though I’m afraid because of past failures, I’m going to do it.  I have a dear friend who has lost about eighty pounds in the last year.  Another dear friend has gotten back down to pre-first baby weight this year.   I’ve a dear old friend (she’s not old, the friendship is) who is a dietician.  She also teaches a water aerobics class.  So, tomorrow morning at 5:45 I’ll be joining her at the YMCA for class.  Did I mention I’m not a morning person?  ~smile~  I think she’ll help keep me motivated not to give up. 

My goal is five pounds a month.  I think that I can start exercising and making small changes and reach that goal.  In the past, I’ve tried to lose weight fast.  It then comes back even faster.  This time I’m going to take my time and not torture myself.

I ask for your prayers.  If you have any success stories or encouragement, I’d love to hear about them.

” I CAN do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”  I know that God’s help is going to be absolutely crucial.  I want to give glory to Him every step of the way.

God bless you all!

Don’t forget to comment on my book give-away post!

Laura

 

Advice to a New Homeschooling Mother

I thought I’d share with you a bit of advice I gave to a young mother recently.  She was at her wits end and crying out for help. 
Hello,
I just happened upon your blog. I only have four children; but, I can identify with some of your feelings. Having children is indeed a huge responsibility that never ends, just like the work never ends. Allow me to share a few thoughts.First, it sounds like you are exhausted. I’m not sure if you have access to a grandparent or friend who could watch your kids for you or not; but, I think you need a day away. It doesn’t matter what you do. You need some time to clear your head and think. I had half a day last week that did wonders for me.

Second, try to get to bed at a decent hour, so that you can try to get some good sleep.

Third, require everyone to lie down for one hour each afternoon. They may not nap; but, they must lie down. Older ones need an hour of reading each day anyway. During this time, you can rest, read, pray, or do a load of laundry, whatever will help you gear up for the second half of the day.

Fourth, make sure you’re eating fruits and vegetables, dairy and meats, not just high carbohydrate foods. You need nutrients.

Fifth, you may be depressed. Consider speaking with your doctor about whether you need herbal supplements or medication to help for awhile.

Sixth, I agree with the previous commenter, Raising Godly Tomatoes is a good site. You might also look at http://www.nogreaterjoy.org. They have a free magazine and lots of articles on-line. They have a book called “To Train Up a Child” by Michael & Debi Pearl that is excellent.

Seventh, please know that the first year or two of home schooling is hard for most of us. It must be harder starting with a larger family. Don’t give up!
It does pay off even though we can’t always see results day to day. Look for the good and seize it daily.

Eighth, most of all, pray pray pray pray. You can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens you.

God bless!
Mrs. Lane